As I’m sure you know, it can be VERY hard to meet women.
This is doubly so if you are shy or have little experience with women.
And it isn’t even that women reject you - it’s that they IGNORE you completely! Every time you go out to a bar or club, you end up standing around alone (or with your equally shy buddies) watching people have a good time.
And trust me - I know this can be SUPER frustrating.
So the key to really improve your success with women is to learn how to get yourself NOTICED.
And I mean noticed in a good way - not the kind of way where you’re out making a fool of yourself running around in a jock strap and singing the lyrics to “Don’t You Wish Your Girlfriend Was Hot Like Me?”
No. Bad.
The key is to do some things that YOU are comfortable with that are guaranteed to get you noticed by all the hotties you seem to find yourself surrounded by.
Here are five simple things you can do to make sure women will perk up and take notice of you…
1. Dress To Impress
Because most guys base their fashion sense on what doesn’t itch, they tend to overlook one very important attention-getting factor, and that is what they wear can help them get noticed by women.
Understand - women pay a LOT of attention to fashion. Why? Because they try and look good all the time! It’s expected of them. They are raised learning how to dress, accessorize, and put on makeup.
If you are doing something often, you’ll be apt to notice others doing it. So when you take care of details in your look, like they do, they WILL notice that. They spend a lot of time picking out accessories and clothing themselves.
Being well dressed is a fantastic way to make yourself stand out in a crowd. Not just suit tie, but a well thought out ensemble. If you are up to date, and are wearing clothes that fit you well, you will stand up regardless.
You’ll have a leg up on most guys, who don’t bother doing this! And by doing that, you’ll stand out, and the women around you will notice.
At the very least, invest in a cool pair of shoes you wear all the time. Even something as simple as this will help you get attention.
2. Smell Your Best All The Time
Men have fallen out of habit of wearing a good aftershave or cologne. But never underestimate the importance of scent. Just like when you smell a woman’s perfume and get all weak in the knees, they’ll catch a whiff of your cologne and melt inside.
Our sense of smell is one of our most powerful - but overlooked senses. I have actually had women track me down in a club because they were trying to find the source of that good smell they sensed nearby.
And when you’re on a date - fuhgetaboutit! As soon as you get close, you’re guaranteed to hear the girl exclaim “Oh my God, you smell so good!” Seriously, you can almost see the pheromones get released in her brain. It’s wicked!
Remember - play against the laziness of other men. Wearing a nice cologne will set you apart, and actually pull women towards you with no other effort on your part!
3. Smile And Make Lots Of Eye Contact
When I’m out at a bar or a club, I always cringe when I see the guys who stand in the corner, holding their drinks, looking around like a lost little puppy with a big frown on their face.
Too often, guys will gaze at a girl they think is hot, and the minute she looks their way, they turn away to try and act like they weren’t staring at her.
But when you lock eye contact with a girl - guess what? She NOTICES you. Suddenly, a face in the crowd stands out and registers in her brain.
And if you have a big frown or a blank stare on your face - guess what? That eye contact isn’t going to last very long! When your eyes meet, you gotta remember to SMILE!
Smiling is a positive thing. It makes people feel relaxed, happy, and comfortable. The more you smile, the better people feel around you.
If you lock eyes with her and smile, and she smiles back, congratulations, it’s on! This nonverbal conversation will make it easier to start speaking with her.
Make sure to read part 2 of this article!